The Solar Dragon and The Steel Dragon

The Solar Dragon sees something worth pursuing. The Steel Dragon, looking back, sees a standard they feel measured against. These are not the same thing, and that gap is the most useful fact on this page: each of you is having a different experience of the same relationship. Most friction between these two charts starts there rather than in anything either of you does.

Standing on the same Dragon means recognising each other immediately — and having the same blind spot in the same place. Nothing in this pairing covers what neither of you sees.

The Solar Dragon brings Fire, which The Steel Dragon's day pillar carries none of, and The Steel Dragon brings Metal, which The Solar Dragon's carries none of. The exchange runs both ways, which tends to hold up longer than a one-directional one — neither of you is only the giver.

Neither day pillar carries Wood and Water. A shared absence is harder to work with than a mismatch, because there is nobody in the pairing to notice it: these are qualities the two of you will consistently underrate in each other and in yourselves.